If you’re married, you can probably agree with me, there are going to be problems.
I’m not negative on marriage. Quite the opposite. But with expectations of each other, the addition of children, money issues, different sexual needs and levels of desire, there is no shortage of challenges once we have tied the knot.
I’ve found nobody is immune to the Class 4 rapids, whitewater river raft ride we call marriage.
Many, if not most of us, buy into the American Dream of the big house, the job with the big paycheck and the big life of vacations and the perfect home. Because we can’t help but drag our own baggage into this big new married life, all of the above eventually leads to big problems, big fights and the day when we ask ourselves, “How did I get here?” and “How do I now get out?”
Yet we got into this marriage for a reason…
“I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this person.”
For those of us who don’t want to give up on the commitment we already made, it frequently makes sense to get help.
Help with clarity.
Help with communication.
Help with healing.
Help with a unified vision.
Help moving forward together.
Lance and Brandy Salazar are my guests on this episode. They have hit the rocks more times than they can count and were ready to divorce. A frank conversation between Brandy and a friend of hers led Brandy to reconsider the wisdom of divorce. Instead, she talked with Lance and they chose to begin to rebuild their marriage together one step at a time.
They did it! Not only did they do it but Brandy and Lance now help others to build their failing, so-so or even good relationships into what they call Legendary Couples.
This episode was full of honesty, transparency, and SOLUTIONS! If you want to rebuild your marriage, regain trust and be able to rely on each other again or more, the first step is to click on this link and listen to this episode.